Yesterday I spent the entire evening and night hanging out with a few of my uncles. For a number of reasons its an occurrence that is becoming less and less frequent. It’s an evening I really really enjoyed.
My uncles are my mentors, my guardians, and my friends. If they think that you are doing something wrong with your life or making some questionable life decisions, they’re not shy about talking to you about it. On the other hand though, if they are pleased with something, they are wonderful encouragers. They give credit where credit is due… but not too much because trust me, these guys will keep you grounded! 🙂
We covered topics from small talk to moving to London to family to marriage to this blog to my mother and back. Not once did any one of them shy away from any questions or comments I had. I’m lucky to have had, and still have, a mountain of support behind me in the way of my enormous family. My uncles are my guardians. They watch out for me and they call me out when I need it.
One thought kept cropping up in my head last night. Whenever the day comes that I bring a guy home to meet my uncles, god help him because he’ll have a tough road trying to keep up with them. They can be an intimidating bunch when they want to be! But if a guy can’t handle my uncles, they’re not going to be able to handle me. Love me, love my family because I’m not me with them.
P.S. I was told last night that these blogs are too happy all the time, that I need to show the darker side of life sometimes. My original thought was to only write when I’m happy to avoid this, but apparently it gives people the sense that my life is too good all the time, and its unrealistic. So readers, from now on things may get real. I’m not going to go for a complete turn around in attitude, but you may have to deal with the occasional bump on the road. I hope you will continue reading.
xxx